Hi fenni11, I sorry you're going through this at a time when you would expect things to be perhaps back to normal . I really think that you need to sit down with your hubby and have an full, honest discussion. However it sounds as though he is really struggling with how you look after your ops and I don't think that this will change after all this time. If that's the case I'm sorry to say that I feel that you'll have a hard decision to make regarding wether or not you want to stay in this relationship . I also feel really angry at the way he has spoken to you and I think that he's been very insensitive. As a man I would hope that I would cope a lot better than he has but I don't know for sure that I would, I would certainly expect to have a lot more empathy than he appears to have though . My wife almost had the same ops and my main concern was how she would recover mentally, not how I would view her physically. I hope you can work through all of this and that I've been of some help to you. Take care, Ray.
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