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Carolyn, We are here if you need us! Thanks for always finding a way to make us laugh! You always put a smile on my face! Your advice and humor will be missed. FF

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I am very sorry to read your post Carolyn. I know you have been supportive to, and appreciated by, many ladies on here and believe from reading your posts that you will have that support from your family and friends. I wish you, and your loved ones, well. Kate x

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I am so very sorry to hear this. I wish you strength as you del with this. You have offered advice and support to others. Thank you. Brace to share your news and I hope you receive good support
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I can give you his answer to that one now...his opinion will definitely be no, but to check with your Oncologist. I think because the Onc is sort of in overall charge of us they kind of have to say that! That said my Onc says what did Max Fax say!!

..just to add, I will ask again even though in the past has said longer x

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Hi Kate,

 

Actually I do have one question. Is 8 weeks off Denosumab either side of extraction sufficient? Many thx for your kindness....

silver...xx

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Hi Silver, my dentist wouldn’t do the work on mine so I was referred to the dental surgeons, I was referring to when I had the first signs of infection when I said my dentist was useless, the dental surgeon was excellent. I have my Max Fax check up next week, and if it’s still the same surgeon he is lovely so if there’s anything you’d like me to ask him let me know and I will run it past him...he can only say no! Kate x

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Silverlining thank you for your reply x
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hi maria,

 

When I was Dxed I had mets in L&R pelvis but I was asymptomatic.....guess that's not really helpful.....x

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Hi hope no one minds me jumping on post ,am looking for advice and scared tbh ..i was dx with tn in jan 17 had ec and pacs mx node clerance 7/12 ,rads ,to 3 places and 8 rounds of capcitabine which ended in march ..had clear ct and bone scan 5 weeks ago .i was wondering if any ladies have mets to there back or hips and if so how did you know .ive had slight back pain for few days, on monday night i turned over and felt like back had gone all fine tuesday morning then in afternoon i got this awful pain across my back hips and pelvis .i have quite high pain tolerance but this has floored me and had me in tears..today its a dull ache but mainly in hips area ..sorry for long post but does this sound bone met familiar any advice appriciated .would it be best to see gp or contact bcn im seeing onc in 2 weeks time .would this fall under the wait 2 weeks regime of wait snd see .thank you ladies
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Hi Carolyn,

 

I just could not read & leave. Although I do not know you, I am sad to read your news, Take good care....xx

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Hello ladies

I've thought long and hard about posting this but as I've been a regular here since October 2015 ..I thought I could be honest.

I saw my oncologist today with scan results and they are not what I wanted to hear. Over the years we have shared laughter, tears and good advice here but it's now time I said goodbye and focused on my family etc.

I wish you all the very best with your treatments and stay strong. ..remember my primary was 2004 and I have been living with secondaries for nearly 3 years so I have had a good innings ....

So goodbye lovely ladies xxxx🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷
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hi kate 21,

 

The dental hospital want my dentist to do an X-ray b4 they see me......xx

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Hello mermaid007.
I can't advise on meds as I am no expert yet. I too am been treated at Wolverhampton. I hope you get some help and advice. I think it's awful when certain treatments come down to funding it makes me so angry. Take care Sending love.xxx
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Hi mermaid, and welcome. 

Sounds like you have done incredibly well on the hormone treatments and so far avoiding chemo. In my experience (10+ years with bone mets) I have found 5 years seems to be about the maximum you might get out of one type of hormone treatment and quite often they all become less effective when they are 2nd, 3rd or further line treatments. You don’t mention anastrozole, I’m assuming you’ve not had it and although it is similar to letrozole I have managed to get a good few years out of both of these treatments, initially anastrozole for nearly 5 years and then a few years later about 18 months from letrozole. A lot of us hormone positive ladies seem to have a couple of hormone treatments then have to go onto chemo to knock everything back a bit if progression is shown on scans, although this isn’t the case with everyone especially if you ‘only’ have bone mets. It may be worth asking about anastrozole? Btw because you have already had exemestane on its own you wouldn’t be eligible to get evermolimus on the NHS, The NICE guidelines include it only if you have not had exemestane. Also if exemestane has stopped being effective I don’t hink your oncologist would expect it to work for any longer if you were able to add evermolimus into the mix ie if you funded it yourself.  It is worth getting your oncologist to ask about getting funding for faslodex, I’m currently on it and luckily my hospital trust had already agreed to fund it themselves before I had to ask about it.  Possibly you could ask if you can fund it yourself and find out the costs, obviously this would depend on whether you could afford it or not but as it’s a long established treatment the costs aren’t as high as some of the newer drugs. As to having chemo there are options that aren’t as harsh as you might think. Capecitabine is tablet form and is very effective, and Eribulin seems to be very effective for hormone positive BC although I seem to remember that you may not be able to have either if you haven’t had any form of chemo before, but the ‘rules’ may have changed.

Sorry I’m not much help but just wanted to mention anastrozole in particular.

Nicky xx

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Mermaid, How about a combo of exemestane and evermolimus. You might need to move up to double agent rather than a single. I'm from the States and don't know much about your medical system, so can't help you there. I would suggest looking for the thread about palbociclib and ask those ladies how and where they got it? Also, you might want to ask your oncologist if you need chemo to knock it back! Every oncologist seems to have their own plan of action. Good luck! FF

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Oh no!!! not hot flushes..u poor thing....I left 'all' that behind me a ways back.

 

TBQH, I loathe the heat & my inflammatory arthritis is in flare so losing my innate sense of bonhomie.....literally praying for rain...for me & my forever garden....

cool huggs for u,

silver..xx

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Hi mermaid. I’ve only just started this journey myself so can’t advise you on meds, but I’m sure someone will be along soon with advice.

Silver, don’t apologise for the guardian story. I don’t even think it’s those sorts of stats that stress people out. It’s more the ones that relate to their particular situations.
I just came across the median isn’t the message yesterday and found it very interesting. I thought that maybe others might find it interesting too. Especially those who enjoy reading about stats.

Positivity to you too. Hoping it’s not too hot for you. We’ve had a fair amount of cloud for the past few days making it very close and sticky. Not great coupled with my medically induced hot flushes. 😳
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hi Kate,

 

That really was a piece of very bad luck....

 

My dentist refuses to do the extraction...I'm being referred to a dental hospital....but to be very honest, I'm very EEEK about the whole shebang....thx for being there...xx

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Ladies I need your advice...

brief history.... breast cancer 1999 chemo radio tamoxifen 5 years letrozole 5 years.

Dec 2014 extensive bone mets had Radiotherapy and been on exemestane sine then with monthly Denosumab. I scored 8 on estrogen level. Recent MRI has show new lesions the only thing my oncologist can offer is chemo!!! I asked about Faslodex she said it’s not funded by the hospital ( Dudley) or ( Wolverhampton) she will ask for funding but isn’t hopeful. Ibrance also not funded which I think is the case for many. She will look for any trials that might be suitable.

I asked if I should revisit Letrozole but she said if Exemestane has stopped working, and it’s the same category as Letrozole but stronger, then Letrozole unlikely to work.

She is at the mercy of funding I know but can the ladies on here give me anything from experience.... is there anything else? Would you think Faslodex should be my next ammunition? Would you have expected Exemestane to have worked for longer? I really wanted chemo to be the last resort.

Thanks for listening and you are all awesome, sorry I have rambled on a bit.

xxx

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Hi f-the-f,

 

Ooopsie.....I do actually realise that there is a time & place for stats. Those European figs. enlightened me....& we are all very special individuals on our own individual journeys.....Positivity abounds....xx...take good care..

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Morning ladies.
Zana, sorry you’re joining us. I’ve only been here a month myself so understand what you’re going through. Having only one bone met has to be a good thing. I mean I’m sure you’d rather have none, but one is the next best outcome.
If your ct scan didn’t show any spread elsewhere then there probably isn’t any I’d think.
My liver mets showed up very clearly on the ct with contrast and they’re tiny.
People live for a very very long time with bone mets.
Hopefully one of these clinical trials will zap the one you’ve got and get you into NED very soon.

They say these new immunotherapy drugs should be available more widely in around five years time. There are clinical trials taking place in America as we speak.

Silver, talking about statistics. Last night I read ‘the median isn’t the message’ by Stephen jay Gould. Interesting stuff.
Just reminded me why I should feel very positive about my future. After feeling like I was slipping into a bit of a hole (thanks to the meds) this has really picked me back up and set me back on the right track for me. It’s worth a read I think. Xx
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Not sure what happened there! 

 

Just to add, the other thing which was unusual in my case was I’d only had 5 Denosumab injections when I stopped them prior to having the work done, my dentist etc all said as I’d been on treatment for such a short time what happened to me was even more strange, and this fit with my research, maybe I was just unlucky!! Kxx

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You’re welcome, anytime, please let me know how you get on xx


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dear kate,

 

I cannot thank you enough. I'm going to look closely into this......many thx for your time and kind consideration.....

huggs,

silver..xx


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dear kate,

 

I cannot thank you enough. I'm going to look closely into this......many thx for your time and kind consideration.....

huggs,

silver..xx

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I can only speak from my personal experience Silver and I’m sure the oncology nurses have seen more people having dental work done, but I personally would not have any done on that time frame. I missed three monthly injections prior and four afterwards. As I said initially mine appeared to have fully healed but the Max Fax team said it’s where you can’t see that problems tend to arise, and again he was right in my case. He said it can take six months for things to fully settle down, yet in all my research, and I did a lot, I never once read that length of time. That said, my dentist, the dental surgeon and my Oncologist all said my case baffled them as to why I’d had problems after it had healed so well as usually it was only when the jaw didn’t heal afterwards, only Mr Max Fax said differently. If I need more dental work I will go and see a biological dentist before I get anything done, I would’ve done this last time but because I had a holiday to California booked I wanted to get the dental work completed and all healed before my flight, and at that point it was, it was much later that problems arose. In fact on that holiday I fell over a raised paving flag, went face down so automatically put my hands out to break my fall, I dislocated a finger (my bag handle got caught around it as my knee fell onto the bag itself and that pulled my finger out) but didn’t break anything or injure my mouth. I was taken to Cedar Sinai who commented in the report that from the state of me after falling, and with my medical history, they were surprised I hadn’t broken anything and I hadn’t had a Denosumab injection for five months at that stage. That hospital belongs, I believe, to a non profit making group yet it was around £11,000 for the manipulation, a few X-rays and a pain killer...the prescription was extra!! Thank goodness I had health insurance and because it wasn’t due to cancer in any way the company have said they will insure me again, phew!

If it was me I’d do lots of research and definitely get another opinion and at least speak to a biological dentist. Kxx

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hi kate,

 

I've been on monthly Denosumab injections for 2 years & 7 months.

 

The onco. nurse today said 8 weeks prior and after dental work...no Denosumab.

 

Is this not careful enough?

 

silver..xx

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Hi Silver,

 

Can I ask you how many doses of Denosumab you’ve had?

 

I ended up at the Maxillo Facial department after my dental work, if they hadn’t been so fantastic I dread to think! I had my work done at the dental hospital and all went well, healed quickly and both my dentist and the dental surgeon were happy, then I got an infection and things deteriorated from there. That said I mainly blame my dental practice for the resulting problems because my dentist was on holiday and the other one was useless, and that’s putting it mildly! The Max Fax surgeon said Oncologists and dentists generally don’t give a long enough recovery time before re starting Denosumab, he advised leaving it six months afterwards, if the gum is involved, both my dentist and dental surgeon said three, also read that on line and my Onc agreed, Mr Max Fax was adamant that wasn’t long enough and on reflection I agree with him. I ended up leaving it four anyway but still had problems. Obviously I didn’t see the Max Fax team until the problems had arisen but if I’d known then what I know now I would have asked for a referral, or at least what time frames they advise. I may sound ott about this but if you develop osteonecrosis of the jaw then you cannot have Denosumab full stop.

I would also advise taking probiotics and/or something like kefir, as I’m sure you’ll be given antibiotics to take especially if you’re having an extraction. Supermarket bought kefir may help but generally isn’t potent enough on it’s own!

 

Kate x

 

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Silver lining you have done so well with treatment and surgery such a brave lady and so glad you have support from Macmillan..My onc said I fell in the small % bracket with it coming back because it was low grade first time and caught very early. I've only got to ring my oncologist Secretary on Thursday she will tell me if bone scan has been looked at. The worry will be if I have to go to Friday's surgery to discuss results because with ct results she told me over phone that they were clear. I had my pre op test on Monday and I'm booked to have lumpectomy on 30th July so it just depends on results. I never asked my onc what the plan b was if bone scan showed Mets. It could be that I still have op. My husband and family are very support. My husband is very understanding as he had oesophageal cancer last year and had surgery to remove 2 parts oesophagas and 2 parts stomach plus chemo before and after. We keep each other going and have a good sense of humour which helps😄 this forum is really good because like you say knowledge is good and you realise your not on your own. I will let you how I get on. Stay strong silverlining and thanks.xx
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hi funnyface,

 

Firstly you are just amazing!

 

My only life's link with the U.S. is that my favourite Uncle lived in Sacramento. Strangely enough he was a physician. I really miss our chats.....

Take care,

silver xx

 

P.S. the problem here is that there is simply no rain and its far too hot for me. Spring & autumn are my favourites....my rain dances aren't working...te,he,he

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Hi Kate 21,

 

Uncanny.....I found out yesterday that I need a molar extracted so I've been finding out what I need to do wrt Denosumab.

 

So very many thx as I'm on the road to the dental hospital in August as my dentist does not want to do it himself.

 

I simply hate dentistry!!!

xx....how very timely....

 

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@ JWD,

 

I could not agree more...knowledge is empowering in this journey.

 

3+ years ago.....I was one of the10/15% found to be stage 4, on discovery. It was such a jolt...I'd no idea. So I had 6 months FEC and a month of daily radio. after a lumpectomy & axilliary clearance 2 weeks later. I just did as i was told.I'm now on Denosumab injections & Letrozole. I've mets on both hips......

 

I only recently found this forum & I'm learning a gr8 deal......will someone be coming with u on Thursday?

 

It was after my initial treatment that I was assigned a Macmillan befriender & he helps so very much.

hugs,

silver..xx

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Silver, I've been on my Mets journey for almost 13 years! It was in my lungs and some lymph nodes in my chest. My mets started 10 years after my primary.

 

I live in Pennsylvania about a hour west of Philadelphia. It is stinking hot plus we had 5to 8 inches of rain in a couple hours. We have had about another 4 since yesterday. Supposed to rain for days!! 

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Thank you silver lining. It was a shock but I think it's the not knowing that's a killer and once it's confirmed you get this inner strength.. And yes its the scan-ixety which is the worst part. Thanks for kind thoughts.xxx what treatment are you having?? Hope it is going well..Take care xx
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Hi Silver,

just to say I had quite a detailed chat with my Onc about Denosumab last year when I had to stop it for 7-8 months due to some dental work (initially thought it would be 6 but ended up longer) and she was very confident it wouldn’t make any difference, and it didn’t. She explained it stays in the system for a very long time, hence why you have to stop before and after dental work (not basic fillings). I asked her why then did we have it monthly and she said if I wanted it less frequently she had no issue with that. I think sometimes it’s just to keep a plan or routine in place, which seems crazy I know but it appears that way at times. She also said  Denosumab hadn’t been used in cancer treatment for that long, although it has been used longer for osteoporosis, so maybe new information is still coming to light about it’s half life etc. Kate x

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Just a wee update, I seen the specialist doctor today and because I have only one bone met on my spine I have to have a pet scan to check it’s nowhere else, if this is the case he says I am a good candidate for clinical trials, I did mention in particular the immunotherapy trials, he said they haven’t tried it on bc yet but he will definitely talk to his colleagues about me. I came away today feeling a wee bit more positive today 😁

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hello JWD,

 

Many thx for sharing your journey. It must have been a shock to find the new 'lump'.

 

As with us all, the phrase scan-xiety is just the pits. Trying distraction techniques is what i do, but it does not always work! Thinking of u.....not long now...

hugggs,

silver..x

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Hi silverlining
Yes basically I had mastectomy 9 years ago. Grade 1 estrogen poss no lymph node involvement. I had 2 years zoladex and was on tamoxafin for 5 years.i had a saline expander implant fitted. At the beginning of this year I felt a hard lump almost like a piece of plastic along my mastectomy scar near to were I had breast dimpleing last time. I didn't even panic as I thought I've had mastectomy.How naive was I? I'd got my routine appointment the next month so I thought I'll mention it then. The breast nurse reassured me and said she thought my implant had ruptured.So then the scans started ultrasound which showed nothing then Mri which my onc confirmed rupture but was still unsure about lump I asked if she thought it was cancer she said she was unsure and it could be a crack in implant..Im convinced she knew there and then but didn't want to worry me. She did a biopsy and I had results a week later which confirmed grade 1 and estrogen positive exactly the same as before. She did a blood test which confirmed post menopause so started me on Anastrazole. She requested ct and bone scan to rule out Mets. Ct was clear but I'm still waiting for bone results should no more on Thurs. I'm booked to have lumpectomy on 30th July and my implant exchanged then she said definitely radiotherapy but unsure about chemo about chemo. Xx
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dear funny face,

 

That must cause so much pressure at a time when you least need it......

 

How long have you been on your 'secondaries' journey?

 

I'd no idea that you were from across the pond......is it very hot there, too?

hugs,

silver..xx

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Moijan, Not all USA ladies get these drugs ! Yes some insurance companies pay. Others have a huge copay. I'm on Medicare which covers 80% of infusion drugs. You pay for Medicare and then you need a secondary insurance to cover the 20%. Prescriptions fall under your prescription plan which you pay for too. All of this coverage cost me $450 a month for me and $450 for hubby. For prescriptions there is a copay. To get palbociclibthe copay for my first month was $3500. Then $800 a month after that. I was able to obtain a grant to pay my copay. When my grant ran out I had to apply again. There was no money left for any grants for metastatic breast cancer. All the funds were used up. I had to apply to the manufacturer "Pfizer" for assistance.Luckily Pfizer agreed to sponsor me for one year. Sadly then the drugs quit working , I only used 5 months of my assistance. Then it was onto the combo I'm on now. This sent me back to finding a grant again. Luckily there was some funding open for metastatic breast cancer again. I was given a $8000 dollar grant for my compacts. I only have enough money until August or Sept. Then I have to reapply for another grant, if no funds available we will try the manufacturer. If they won't give it to me then I will have to switch drugs. I can't afford $700 dollar copay plus the copays on my other medications plus hubby 's copays and the insurance premiums. Very few people here get these drugs completely covered by insurance. FF

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I already know that some of you have a very negative opinion on stats. but these are relevant to the current chat:-

 

I can't share the Guardian article but it states that the UK cancer survival rates trail 10 years behind European countries...x

 

 

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Hi JWD,

 

I like to form a 'picture' in my mind. am I right in thinking that 'these' are your first secondaries after 9 years? Hoping you have love and support around u....xx

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Thanks for the info moijan.

I’m really fuming about this. I’m brand new to secondaries so I’m probably being naive, but is there nothing that can be done?
Has anyone ever started a petition? There seem to be petitions for everything now.

What about support from local MPs?
Surely this just can’t be right.
I had fec-t chemo last year and I’m eligible. It’s just ridiculous.

In my opinion, there is a lot of wasted money that should be redirected into healthcare.

I watched a prominent UK liver mets doctor on Twitter talking about some life saving/extending treatments that our government won’t pay for, so most of his patients are either wealthy or traveling from countries like Germany, where their governments are happy to pay.

He has to turn people from England away, even though he could help them. He works for the NHS but these treatments, such as SIRT and chemosaturation, he carries out privately.

If we can’t have the same standard of care as other places in Europe, then I believe the government has a responsibility to be honest and let people know that their lives are only worth a certain amount.
That if you want to be sure of receiving any treatment you might need, then you need to take out private insurance.
Because if their lives depend on being able to access life saving treatments on the NHS the answer could very likely be NO 😡
I was definitely naive when it comes to this. I thought private healthcare was more about waiting times.
In hindsight, I obviously very much regret not taking any out.
Xx
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Ftf

 

i have battled with Nice about these drugs....they told me that the trials showed no evidence that they worked with people who had had chemo before.that was because chemo treated ladies were excluded from the trials!)

 

 

actually there IS  evidence now that they do  (in. The USA).

 

Publicising the drugs initially,  said that they were sooo pleased to be able to spare future bc sufferers from going through chemo...and giving extra years to these people, So they  can see their kids, grandkids grownup.

 

I wrote and said that there are thousands of us ladies, who now felt disadvantaged...who’s drugs eventually. Run out and prospects were poorer. That’s when they wrote and said there is no evidence they work for Us!

 

You can read all about their decision making on the Nice website.

 

i am afraid it’s all down to money. The USA ladies get them as their insurance pays!

 

much love to you

 

Moijan..

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Thanks silver lining will keep you posted.xx
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Thanks Feel the fear for your support and advice hopefully bone scan will be clear. I was on zoladex injections after my mastectomy and I could get quite weepy and very fatigued but you just put it down to everything you have been through.My emotions were all over the place at times with highs and lows.xx
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Weird....I've just been reliably informed that my oncology's department protocol will be changing...Denosumab will be administered 1 x every 3  months! Not sure i rest easy with this cut back......Any thoughts...x???

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Hi JWD,

 

Snap!....being very new to the forum. There is a wealth of knowledge here...best of luck with your bone scan...do let us know.....x

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Thanks for all of this Nicky. I appreciate it so much. I’m building up a folder. My oncology appointments are very long. 🙄
I’ve sent emails off to a couple of renowned liver met specialists and have had replies stating that they agree with my current line of treatment.
Im very keen on the idea of surgery of some sort or radio ablation maybe. I’m terrified about this lesion that’s next to my portal vein. I’m obsessed with it. It’s tiny now but if this treatment doesn’t stop the growth it could end up being a huge danger to me I think.
Although my oncologist hasn’t mentioned anything about it.
How absolutely terrible that chemo gave you heart failure. I can’t imagine what you went through. You’re obviously made of tough stuff.

I’m confused about my pathology report too. That’s something else I need to clear up at my next appointment.

Angela xx
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FtF, I really hope you don’t have to battle to get the right treatments although what you have had to deal with for your sone might help you. A good friend of mine, who has had bone mets for over 15 years, also has a disabled sone and has the bit between her teeth for her own treatment as well. All I’d say is make sure you educate yourself about what treatment is right for your type of BC and be prepared to challenge any decisions you don’t think are the right ones. Also be prepared to ask for a second opinion if you don’t agree with the decisions by your own oncologist, a major research hospital will have a wealth of experience that some more local hospitals don’t. All I have done is make sure I know what the next step will be and that has helped me take some form of control, which is what we all lose when we’re plunged into this nightmare. I was like FF with my primary, as most ladies are, you don’t seem to have the time to consider what might be right or wrong and you accept every word your oncologist tells you as you just want to get the cancer out of your body and move on. With secondaries it isn’t going to be gone, it’s with you and you will have more than one treatment over the years so I learnt to know what was coming next.  In fact with my original secondaries diagnosis I probably got it wrong and shouldn’t have had chemo but stuck to hormonal treatments but the thought of the hormonal taking longer to work than chemo was enough to convince me I should go the chemo route. Great news it stabilised the bone mets and got rid of the local recurrence but absolutely bad news it gave me heart failure! This then compromised my treatment options 5 years later when liver mets were also diagnosed. Luckily I was able to get excellent help with the heart failure and get it back to full working order but at the time I thought I was a goner, stress and anxiety doesn’t even cover how I felt. As to why us long term survivors can’t have the new drugs through the NHS it is unfortunately down to cost. Obviously if you have private health cover, like is needed in the US, you can get them but their cost effectiveness isn’t proven yet so NICE won’t put them on the accepted list for all patients. However the new drugs are always given in addition to a hormonal drug (correct me anyone if I’m wrong) so it is difficult to prove how much they enhance the effect of the hormonal in patients who have had more treatments as the drug trials have so far only taken place on 1st line patients, but hopefully in future they will be introduced as a standard for all long term survivors. Even without the newer drugs I have had 5 years out of arimidex originally and about 18 months out of letrozole (which was by then my 4th line of treatment). With your pathology report it sounds like to are hormone positive but I’m not sure about the percentages that are quoted. Usually ER and PR are marked out of 8 so 7/8 is highly positive, maybe the percentages are working out something else as 7/8 in my mind would be between 75% and 88%? Tamoxifen does work in a different way to the AIs (aromatase innibitors). I don’t think tamoxifen worked for me after my primary, but I could be wrong, after all my recurrence wasn’t for 5 years but by then I had my periods back which I’m sure didn’t help.

Hope all this helps with information gathering 😊this is what I’ve done over the years, find out from here as it’s far more up to date with opinions from oncologists all around the country (as we are all around the country ) so instead of getting a second opinion I’ve often had 10 opinions when I’ve asked a question which is great. Long make we continue to share and help others.

Nicky xx

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Hi JWD.
Sorry that you’re in the waiting game. It’s the worst of feelings isn’t it, and we over think every single thing anyone who works in a hospital says to us.
It’s impossible not to.
I’d think your scan has probably been marked as urgent just because of your recurrence. I don’t think they could be keeping anything from you if no one has even looked at it yet.
I know it’s much much easier said than done, but do try not to worry. I’d say they’re just being cautious giving you the bone scan. If your ct scan is clear I’d say it’s looking very positive for you. X