hello dear funny/f,
As I've said, I was stage 4 at initial Dx. Despite this, I get fobbed off incessantly. Oh, it must be your arthritis. This is my G.P. Or its a longstanding pain! I end up having to fight my corner when I'm feeling unwell. Its ever so hard at times. As i live solo, i attend clinics solo....and in a strange way, this makes it harder. Oh dearie me...I'm whinging...!!!
How are u, this w/end? Big friendly waves to u, across the pond....hoping i remembered right.....xx
Angelsam, Never let a doctor fob you off! I'm not talking about the symptoms you are having now, but any time you are concerned. They should never laugh at you! I don't want to scare you but want to make you aware that it can come back no matter how many years. It is less likely the longer it has been, but it can happen. Always get things checked out! Mine came back at 10 years. I was quite naive and shocked! FF
Hi, I hadn't thought about it being sciatica, maybe it is that. Pain has been quite bad lately and driving me a bit nuts lol. I have an appointment with GP on Tuesday so will see what she says. I'll try not to let her fob me off but she did say when I was 5 years clear that I was cured now 😣 and seeing as it's been over 10 years she will probably laugh at me if I mention the cancer. Thank's for replying Xx
I think the hardest thing to bear is daily pain.....& then u may find its of unknown origin/ your arthritis......i don't think we should be in bad pain, in this day and age...xx
I to have this pain and have had it since last October! I am now on amitriptyline 20mgs every night. I think it is beginning to work. My left leg tingles when I stand up with pins and needles. I am told by my Oncologisr that is is nothing to do with my bone mets but seems a bit of a coincidence. I agree that it is awful we have to have constant pain and being offered opiates which seem to destroy your mind don't help. I don't know about you but I have a real problem with sitting or lying down so I stand up and walk a lot to relieve it. I was first diagnosed in 2011 and found I had secondaries last September. So good to talk to other ladies in the same position as it can be very lonely!
hi riverside dawn,
When did you have your initial surgery? If you are concerned, I'd be calling your breast care nurses.
Take care...hoping u get your answers soon,
Silver, I'm sorry you are in pain and no response from your oncologist! I would be done with him/her! Surely there must be someone else to see.?!?!
Hugs , FF
Hello bon,and all the others,
You've hit the nail on its very head. I'm a multifactorial patient as I'm sure many are.....If you have been in pain in excess of 8 weeks, surely u should report in.
I have reported into oncology last Wed...& absolutely zilch response. Meanwhile I'm on Morphine sulphate, panadol ( hospice's nurses odea), and I'm adding Gabapentin at increasing levels just trying to rid myself of this pain. In this day and age, i feel 'we' should not hhave to suffer daily bad pain without help & support.
Are u an olde hand at this forum stuff?
You are very welcome to post here. Sounds like you've got sciatica which happens when something affects your sciatic nerve, Good that you are going to see your GP. Emphasise that you've had it for 2 months and don't be fobbed off. There have been stories on here of women whose symptoms were not taken seriously but it may well be nothing to do with cancer.
Hi I hope you lovely ladies don't mind me asking a question. I've had this pain in the back of my leg for a couple of months. It starts under my bum cheek and goes down to about knee level. It hurts when resting and tingles a bit. I will make an appointment with my GP but was wodering if anyone else had this. I was diagnosed in 2007 . Thank's Xx
Hi there Zena..how lovely to hear from youxxx
’of course you are very welcome here...this the happy chat thread.
i am now on carbo, have lost my muscle strength, ache both arms, and neck...stomach aches, eye sensitivity,
Did you get all or some of those.?
i think they are treating me as triple neg...but am hoping this works.
I recall how ill you were on Paclitaxel......l hope you are better?
please keep in touch and pm me if you like...I’d love a chatxx]
much love and hugs, Moijanxxxx
I agree with you Siver, most have abssoluetly no idea unless c has touched them.ihave heard the buses. Comment over. Again for 18 years now...what I have said back, was,, well at least you haven’t been given the heads up that there is a ? About the rest of your life, that is the hard stuff...we tend to live our lives as we wish, until c comes in, then that innocence is gone.
my very best friend, when she heard from me that the options for my treatment. seem less now as I’ve had many...she said, oh, firsts x died and then y...now everybody is going! I love her dearly, but was annoyed...said loudly, well..you seem to be doing ok. And she realised and reverted to the bus comment.she was sad that friends are leaving her..,I quite understood..
hopefully you havent lympoedema as people in small droves used to. Sidle up to me and say what have you done to your arm? Quite rude, you could see them coming over in shops or on trains and. ask, or do you mind if I ask you a q? I said once no questions today sorry..and got..well I was only going to ask you...,,,,
in in the end I said..shark bite! People ARE rude,
I think its ever so sad that people don't treat us with tact and sensitivity but then again their flippancy might belie a genuine feeling of really not knowing what to say as Ca is rather a taboo subject.....i wish it was not so as their comments do actually hurt.....xx
I wish you could feel well again.
It's true people all die eventually and in all sorts of ways but this way is particularly hard work (and I've barely begun)
People you encounter usually don't understand what's involved and there are only a few people that you can or want to explain it to.
love to all Bon xx
Just to add to the thoughtless comments;
Telling my new hospital physiotherapist that although my cancer was terminal I didn't want to give up on trying to be less pain free. Her reply was "oh well, life is terminal isn't it?"
I suppose there's no training for dealing with difficult conversations but I would have thought health professionals would be a little more careful with their choice of phrase!.
Thank you, Silver, I'm just feeling down because my SEs are hammering me, I've been very lucky to be on a successful drug trial for 2.5 years but in the last 2 cycles my body has had enough and seems not to want to continue.
One drug is Ibrance but the other is an experimental one, Taselisib which I read has not shown much of a result on another trial, but too many SEs and I think Roche may be discontinuing it?
Anyway, mustn't grumble...would just love to feel well again, like all of us xx
I'm sorry u are being plagued by unpleasant side-effects. Are u in the midst of chemo.? Is there anything u can use to help u?
Yes, indeedy, peeps can be ever so thoughtless.....& they really do not think b4 they speak. Its hard when we so very often feel below par owing to various t'ments.
The whole shebang makes us emotionally vulnerable, too....xx
Yes, that's my pet hate comment...."oh I could get run over by a bus tomorrow!" Seriously? Is that supposed to make me feel better? I'd take my chances with a bus over cancer any day... Only bettered by the classic " you must beeee positive, your attitude will help you win the fight!" Yawn, I can't even be bothered to explain secondary breast cancer...
..don't know why I'm feeling fed up, side effects have really kicked in with a vengeance, sorry! Hope everyone is enjoying the cooler weather xx
this is a shocker.....last X'mas my ex said...oh well, he could get run over by a bus....all i could say was...how dare u compare cancer to a bus!!! x
Oh, dear Sarah,
That is very harsh. I hate it when friends and family say that I'm brave as I just feel we don't have a choice but I take my hat off to you.
I was Dxd with secondaries in both hips as my 1st Dx....so that was a shock. I'd no idea. That was just over 3 years ago. I'm on Denosumab & letrozole......oh, after the initial onslaught of chemo. & radio.
Take care.....whst do we say instead of 'brave'??
many thx for your reply.....may i ask how long you've had secondaries & where?
Thinking about this; i think its his way as I've had so many of my questions just dismissed. Initially i asked about the 4 main sites...lymph, brain, lungs and liver & again his retort was don't think 'bout that. Methinks i'm going to have to inform him that i really would like more info.....my body, my life, as it were.
My garden is literally 'glowing' after all the wet stuff as am i......take care & have a good sunday.....xx
P.S this forum is ever so helpful...
Well it sounds like I should stop being a wimp and learn how to do the injections. Getting used to the idea now.
My partner does my Denosumab at home for me as oncologist thought that was the normal procedure - got the first one done in chemo ward and they gave me a pile of needles & sharps bin and we've been doing them ourselves since (about a year) It's really easy as it's not into a vein - so can't see why it couldn't be done at surgeries - personally I find it much more convenient to do it at home as then I can pick whenever suits me.
maybe a 'silly' question
when I asked my oncologist about my pathological figures, he said don't worry about those. So i was somewhat dismissed.
What do the ER & PgR numbers indicate? & do they infer anything important?
we have not met...so a wavy hello......x
Although I'm 3+ years in from my secondary diagnosis, i've very little knowledge about all these different drugs....
Read all about it.
Many thx for your reply. I've been on monthly Denosumab since 2015. I'm beginning to realise how little I know about my various t'ments. May i ask....what is cape?
Have a good day....blissfully so much cooler....
Hi one and all,
I'd like to know the longest anyone has been on monthly Denosumab injections. I found a NICE directive that said its monthly @ 120 for secondary Ca patients.So this 3 monthly thingy is really hot off the press. It costs £4,300 p.a. per patient.
With my tooth extraction forthcoming, I'm rather worried about the prospect of jaw necrosis....eek!
Hi funnyface, confusing is exactly right! I wonder if what my Onc said about still finding out about the effects for cancer patients, as opposed to osteoporosis, is part of the confusion? Maxillo Facial have always said to me that it stays in the body for a very long time, and they have probably had more years of seeing patients on it because of its longer use for osteoporosis. Have to say everything they have said about what would happen with my jaw has been spot on, and my Onc has been happy for me to follow their advice. Kate x
To add to the denosumab info Prolia is used, as FF has said, for osteoporosis and is half the dosage of denosumab as the Xgeva that we are given for bone mets 60mg per dose to 120g per dose. So goodness knows how long our denosumab dose lasts for! Btw I was only being a bit nerdy about this as I had never heard of Prolia until FF mentioned it.
As has also been mentioned I'm sure if we do eventually have to get our Xgeva from our GPs the practice nurse would, I hope, be able to give it to anyone who felt they couldnt administer it themselves. From what I've seen over the years I've been having it it is no worse than the GCSF injections or Heparin injections I have had to self administer, and the nurses are more than capable of giving those.
That's what I was told Kate! I wonder if another onc would say something else! This is confusing!
Thanks Nicky for your as always well informed comments. I would be more than happy to have denosumab administerd by GP or district nurses. The plan is that the drug will be delivered to me by courier so I could take it to the surgery and they wouldn't have to pay for it, just administer it. I think the hospital could try harder to come up with an acceptable solution.
Everyone seems to have been told something different about the lasting effects of d.
love to all Bon xx
Hi Funnyface, is that active for six months? Only asking because the Maxillo Facial consultant definitely said it can remain in your system for years, and that it can vary greatly. Kate x