My husbands uncle contacted us a couple of years ago and told us he had breast cancer which runs in the male members of the family. He was treated but sadly the cancer returned and spread this year and he died a few weeks ago.
My husband has had contact with his Aunt and her daughters (his cousins) and have told him she also has breast cancer. Before his death her and her brother were tested and the PALB2 gene identified. One of her daughters has it, the other doesn’t.
My husbands uncle and aunt are two of three siblings, the other being my mother-in-law. She died last year. She had Parkinson’s but declined extremely rapidly over the last year of her life. So much so that doctors caring for her suggested that they felt there could be something else medically going on but didn’t feel it was in her best interests subjecting her to further tests due to her frailty and rapid decline in health. We now wonder whether with such a strong history of breast cancer in her siblings, and having had the PALB2 gene identified whether she also died with breast cancer. Unfortunately as it was an expected hospital death there would have been no post mortem.
When we found out about my husbands uncles cancer we spoke to our GP about genetic testing and he said an uncle isn’t a close enough relative to justify genetic testing and that hubbys risk is low. Now with the further information we have regarding the PALB2 gene, and the fact it has affected Male and female members of his family, would this be enough for hubby to have genetic testing? Would we need to get mother-in-laws medical records to prove that doctors questioned whether she had something else as well as Parkinson’s Disease? We can’t prove she had it but we have strong suspicions. Would the fact that now we know both of her siblings have the gene mean that my husband could go back and ask the GP to be tested for the gene as well?
Any comments or advice would be very much appreciated as we have three children, and a grandchild along with my husband who could be affected.
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