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In Limbo - More waiting. Do I go back to work?

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Re: In Limbo - More waiting. Do I go back to work?

Hi - I had a right mastecomy on 24th Setember 2018 - as there was no node involvement I didnt need rads or chemo, but as I opted for immediate reconstruction I had a tissue expander one and had to go to the hospital weekly for about 8 weeks to have it 'filled', so decided to stay off while this was being done. I work for the Civil Service so get 6 months full pay and 6 months half pay as well. The doctor would have kept signing me off if I wanted but I returned to work on 15th January - so was off for about 3 and a half months - however I will need more time off when I have the next operation to exchange the implant to a silicone one  - so I'm trying to 'manage' my time off - hoping not to get to the 6 month point where my salary is reduced by half.

When I went back to work it was a phased return so nothing too demanding, so I've found it OK to go back in between procedures. Work have been brilliant, I have to say.

If you feel 'ready' to go back and you want to try and not hit the 6 months trigger point to go down to half pay maybe your work could do a phased return and 'light' duties until you get your date for rads? Don't go back if you don't feel ready or if work won't 'accomodate' you.

Good lucck, Helen. xxx

 

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Re: In Limbo - More waiting. Do I go back to work?

Do you have the ridiculous thing of if you're off for one long spell it's better than being off for more shorter spells? I know this is the case in the nhs...

Likely to be about 2 weeks to see the oncologist.

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In Limbo - More waiting. Do I go back to work?

Hi 

I had my lumpectomy 4 weeks ago.   Waiting to see  the Oncologist and for Oncotype dx result.     I’m feeling fine but I don’t know whether to go back to work or not .    

I work in a school so any return to work will involve occupational health.   I don’t think it is easy as just rocking up back to work.   I’m definitely going to be having radiotherapy and possibly depending on the results ( and it needs to be a very high number to convince me Chemo).   I won’t be able to to work during rads as it is over a 3 hour return journey each day.  I don’t know whether to go back to work or just wait until it is all over.     I get 6 months full pay from work and I’m about 4 months in as had 1 month off for broken ankles last Feb.

Also how long did you have to wait for oncologists appointments? My op was 4 weeks ago saw consultant for post op appointment last week.  Received copy of referral letter from her to oncologist last week.   I just want to get started so it can be over.