Hi everyone - wow - I went to sleep and woke up to a new look forum and a dozen new messages! G how have your kids reacted to your bald head? (sorry if I'm getting mixed up but I think it was you who said they were really worried about it?) Sunnydaze I'm sorry you're feeling worse this time around - oh dear - not good to hear! - but also not really surprising I guess. This stuff knocks you around so it must get harder & harder for our bodies to bounce back. I certainly don't feel as good going into #2 as #1. Sparkie2001 - I don't know how you're doing it with little kids. My youngest is 7 and they've been on school holidays for the last 5 weeks which has been tough enough, I'm counting the days (6) til school goes back. (Only so I can get more rest time!!) Wantolive - geez I wish your husband would step up and support you by learning how to clean!! I can't believe you'd be up that late on chemo night cleaning up his mess. Time to put your foot down?
I'm 19 hours into my fast ready for next infusion Fri, feeling a bit weak but the fasting doesn't seem as big a deal as last time, maybe because I'm just so scared about the infusion and afterwards. I now just want it over and done with. Today I'm taking the kids roller skating and to the orthodontist and preparing a couple of meals and tonight I'll shave. I've been putting it off as long as possible but last night the back of my shirt was like a rug and lying down felt like pins in my head.
Take care everyone, thinking of you all xxx
Hi stuckat14, I am on 4x EC (1st one was 8th Jan) have you asked for Emend for your sickness? It's expensive to NHS but a very good drug. If they haven't given it to you please ask your onc or bcn to have it for the next round. I suffer with nausea quite easily but this helped me enormously. You should have it before your chemo then each day for 2 days afterwards.
Sunnydaze, i really miss live yoghurt too and not allowed sourdough bread either! I'm on 4 x EC and was told bloods start dropping on day 7 and come back up day 14 onwards, onc said the drop can start as early as day 5 though. Please take it easy and rest and I hope you feel better soon.
Hi Wantolive, I do try to get organised before chemo. Live alone so try to have a full fridge and freezer in. I ate pretty lightly first few days but on day 5 was back to normal eating, no taste changes as yet. I've been brushing teeth or rinsing mouth out with salt water each time after eating and for first time in my life using a tongue scraper as taste buds are on the tongue. If anyone here is on paclitaxel I read that sucking ice lollies when you have infusions helps with taste thing - not sure how you keep them ice cold though in chemo unit. I have a cool bag but it's not a freezer.
G, thank-you for your good wishes hon.Hair is holding on for now, I'm day 15 since first one and shedding could happen any day so thanks for the symptoms. I think i had a tingling on top of scalp on day 12 but it went.I definitely will continue to cold cap even I lose it all because from what I've seen hair does grow back faster afterwards and same as it was before. Got 3 friends all early 40s going through this and at different stages (some had chemo first). I'm going to continue with the vitamin D oil at night too.
Day 6 and still some naseau. Im wondering if the filgrastim jabs have something to do with it as when I get up I feel fine and then half hour later I do the jab and then a short while after I start feeling sick.
But at least Im not getting the bone pain which is a more common side effect.
Huggss to all.
LB - I've got a number 2! It's very cold though so if you're ready to roll get your hat ready :-)
As with most things I went head long in to the hair loss and thought I'd take my hair before any horrible drugs were getting their hands on it. I had a series of terrible haircuts from a seven year old on the day of my first cycle and then we shaved it all off. The thought of it dropping out made me sadder than just getting it over and done with. Can't say I particularly love the look but I guess it won't be around for much longer anyway!
Stuck at 14 - I'm a week into it all and my food tastes rubbish but I am eating like a horse. I'm not back to normal by any stretch of the imagination and have felt pretty spaced out the last few days. I've not been too bad with the nausea but the indigestion/heartburn is doing me up like a kipper. My kids have been out at school/nursery for the last couple of days so that's helped but today the two youngest are at home and it's double the effort to keep on top of things. Don't be too hard on yourself. And I frequently feel like running away...
Wanttolive - your chicken noodle soup sounds fab. Recipe please! :-) It is really odd that so many of us seem to be in our early 40s with kids but comforting to know we're not alone. I am planning to spend my good days getting everything sorted so the house runs like clockwork (hahaha) or at least emptying the overflowing laundry basket.
Hi Stuck at 14
It was day 9 before my food started to taste normal and after that I had much more energy.
It's day 16 now and my hair has started pulling and falling out - it's time to brave the shave - my husband wants to do it - I might stick it out for another day or 2 - I didn't think it would be this hard to do. I had several friends who were going to help - guess what - all got colds. I'm not sure how short to go - any suggestions please.
I love all the tips that we share on here - it really helps.
Hugs to all