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Good afternoon ladies!

i hope you enjoy the rest of your cruise rosie, it sounds lovely! I would love to see the Northern lights one day. Lovewine, sorry you have quite a few things to worry about at the moment, I hope your mammogram all clear comes through soon and that your Dad has good news.

i have been very busy for a few weeks, I had a meeting for work in Toulouse on a Wednesday, then flew back to do a 2 day training course in London on Thursday and Friday and then on Saturday OH drove me to London to meet some of DD’s friends and her Dad to scatter her ashes in the garden of remembrance. After that I was wiped out and the next week had no energy and was fighting off a sore throat for a few days. I only worked three days though and had the Thursday off as a lieu day for the training course on the Friday, so I had a restful long weekend and then this week has been very busy and stressful at work and yesterday we had a new boiler installed which OH stayed at home for but I received updates by WhatsApp throughout the day. All done by the evening and today I have been cleaning up after the plumber and electrician. We had a Nest fitted at the same time, it is currently learning our temperature preferences, the heating came on in the middle of the night but we were able to switch it off via the app without getting out of bed!

There is a washing machine in the middle of my kitchen and a freezer in the corridor from the kitchen to the dining room and the contents of various cupboards is piled up in the dining room too. I am hoping the washing machine can go back this afternoon so I can do some laundry.

i am knitting a cowl and some mitts at the moment and then have a warm cardigan which will be just what is needed I think.

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Good Morning ladies from the artic circle!
We had a 20 hr force 11 storm on the second night aboard! I was bricking it!
OH enjoying photography we did get a glimpse of the northern lights last night!👍
I will put pictures up on return to Worcester!
Lovewine what a dreadful tragedy to happen! 😪
Will pop back in a couple of days 4g willing!
Take care ladies!
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Good evening ladies , hope everyone is ok.
A busy week for me so far with work, it’s been very chilly too .
Rosie , hope you are having a lovely time and seeing some interesting places !
Our local area has been very subdued with the helicopter crash and death of the owner of the Leicester city football club , he was very popular and also did a lot of good locally - donating millions to the hospital and the university , just shows how fragile life is.
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Good afternoon ladies, Rosie, have a wonderful time on the cruise😊, sadly i am like Joans OH with anything on water, i had an inner infection in my 20s and feel very seasick, felt ill even on mum and dads golden wedding canal boat trip! I cant watch things in 3 D either or planateriums😬, hope you see the Northern lights too.
Joan, glad your blood tests are normal, thats a relief, plenty of spinach for you for a while😊, hope you enjoy the theatre today too.
I am having a fairly quiet day today, the weather was glorious first thing, but its now raining heavily now, have lit my woodburner and not bothered going out.
Must admit i will be glad when next week is over with, feel anxious about dad and my results too.
Hope you get at least some sleep tonight Rosie, i know what you mean though, i never sleep the night before a trip either.
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Good morning ladies!
Yes Joan we are all prepared for the cold weather we will face in Norway!
We are travelling to Tilbury very early in the morning so no sleep for me tonight!😳
I will try to log in when in a port briefly but I will only have my phone with me. We return to Worcester on November 11th and Cyprus on 17th.
Lovewine I do hope all goes well with your dad’s results next Friday and by then you will hopefully have had the all clear from your mammogram!
Joan I am glad your blood test only showed that you are anaemic at least you can take an iron supplement and increase foods rich in iron.
Have a good theatre visit!
Take care ladies back when I can! xxxx
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Rosie, you certainly had a hairy time getting back to the UK. Hope you have a wonderful cruise, it’s one I would love to do, especially to see the northern lights but OH cant do sea cruises, he has middle ear problems and gets very ill. At least you will be expecting the chilly weather in Norway, and will probably have a taste of it here tomorrow to get you further acclimatised.

 

Lovewine, glad your mammogram is over, not long now to wait for the results and then you can breathe again for another year. Hope all goes well with your dads appt. next week, good that he is feeling better. It is awful about your friend, but as Rosie says, they wouldn’t be doing the op if they didnt think it would give him a better chance. I’m so sorry to hear about OHs work issues, I hope something is sorted soon so that at least businesses know what they will be dealing with, and fingers crossed we dont just walk off a cliff edge. 

 

Sorry not to have been on the board this week, I seem to have been quite busy. I am generally feeling much better though still tireder than usual. But that is probably because the blood tests showed I’m anaemic, so I have to have another test in a month. Hopefully by then the bruise from the first one will have disappeared. Fortunately nothing else turned up. Not had the hospital appt through yet. Off to the theatre in Bath tomorrow, then a bit more gardening on Sunday, weather permitting. 

 

cassie & Wildpurl, hope you are both well. 

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Good morning!
Lovewine we have acclimatised now and can dress appropriately! I returned my dress to Debenhams and found a more suitable one it was more expensive but had 20% off.
Yesterday I met my sister for coffee and cake in Hereford it only costs me £6.80 return on the train and takes about 30 mins. She lives in Ludlow and if she comes to Worcester has to change at Hereford that’s why we meet there sometimes!
Yes it’s the Norwegian cruise it starts on Sunday form Tilbury. We were going to go on the train until we realised it is a Sunday we would have had three changes one being a bus with two suitcases! We are driving and leaving the car at the docks. It’s rather pricey but it will be less stressful than relying on public transport!
To be honest I am beginning to feel rather stressed about it I am not a lover of being shut in a cabin at night especially if it’s a bit rough! DH is the lover of cruises! I am looking forward to seeing the scenery in Norway and hopefully the northern lights! After our late Jan cruise from Thailand to Malaysia we will stick to motorhoming! This suits us very well! The cruises were booked long before the arrival of even the idea of the motorhome!
Today DH is taking our car in for service and then we will be packing! We packed one case before we went back to Cyprus last time and can’t remember what we packed!😂🤨
Lovewine I am so pleased to hear that your dad was well enough to drive your mum to see you and be greeted by Kipp’s welcome!
Lovewine hopefully by removing the tumour your friend will have longer to see his children grow up. At 46 he needs to give himself the chance of improving life expectancy! Without it he could be gone before Christmas!🙀 They wouldn’t do the op if they thought the prognosis wouldn’t improve considerably! It’s a very worrying time for his wife!😞
The weather broke in Cyprus the day before yesterday with a huge storm and lashings of rain! We had a message from Hounds on holiday to say that all dogs were safe! 😌
Thank goodness it didn’t come the day we flew here!
Hope everyone else is ok?

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Good evening ladies, Rosie, what a chaotic trip back you had to the UK, you certainly will have noticed the big drop in temperature since your last visit😬. Hope you have had a relaxing few days , shame about the Debenhams dress! Bet you are really looking forward to your cruise now too, I forgot where you are going, is it a Norweigan tour? 

I have had a fairly quiet week at work this week, next week looks busy though and also have Dads appointment with the consultant to take him too, discussing the results of the camera and scan 😏, he actually seems a little better and drove up with mum to see me this afternoon for an hour, Kipp was delighted as he adores my Dad.

Our friend who has been diagnosed with lung cancer which is a secondary from his kidney cancer he had 8 years ago has had so many scans and appointments, he told me last night he had seen the specialist yesterday and been given the news his tumour in the lung is 143 mml big and he is to have an operation to remove it on 13th november, its the only option as hes been given 2 to 10 months survival without it, i didnt dare ask what the outcome is with the operation, but i expect chemo will be given too, its made me feel very down as he is only 46, 2 young children too. I was awake last night thinking about him and his family.

Joan, have you had your appointment through yet? Hope you are continuing to feel better.

Cassie, hope things are ok with you and your family, expect work is as busy as ever for you!

Wildpurl, hope you are ok , do you have any  crafting on the go at the moment?

 

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Good Morning ladies we arrived back at half past midnight which was like 02.30am to us!😴 We didn’t think we were going to leave Paphos as there was an impromptu strike by the ground crew just as we were next at the check in desk! We haven’t checked a case in for years we only had it as we need 2 for the cruise and we have one here and the other was in Cyprus! We were waiting for 1.5 hrs before they returned to work! So no time for relaxing in the airport we had to go straight to the gate with 4 other flights DH was ahead of me and I lost him and got in the Luton queue, then the Bristol one before I found the right queue for Gatwick - it was chaos, I wasn’t the only one that was confused! Fortunately we got back to Gatwick in time for the last train that would get us a connection at Reading! 😅
My teeth were chattering when we got off the train at Reading as I didn’t have a warm coat and only had thin leggings on with a thin long sleeved top!😱
Lovewine I am very sorry to hear the problems OH is experiencing at work regarding the uncertainty with the Brexit deal it must be very worrying and disappointing for you! I do hope that things will get worked out and business will pick up!😞I hope this doesn’t mean that you are going to have to work more hours!🙀
I oredered a black dress from Debenhams and I look like a pregnant mermaid in it,
so that’s going back this am! I thought £28 was a bargain!😬
Hope the week starts well for you all!

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Hello ladies, what a beautiful weekend its been and today too, forecast though later in the week is very chilly with possible snow😮, I certainly hope not.

Rosie, our old dog was the same at the vets too, my two i have now are not too bad, the older one slightly less keen but Kipp not bothered at all, i feel the same when i go for my hospital check ups !

Hope things calm down for you at school a bit now and you can look forward to your trip, my friend left last saturday for a river cruise around the Norwegian Fjords, it has been slightly changed due to river levels apparently, so instead of picking up the boat at Germany they were being flown to Switzerland, sounds very nice though😊

We had a lovely group walk on saturday, we have a new member to our group, a lady with a young labrador, she is a retired Deputy Head teacher and relieved to be so now! We had coffee and walnut cake at the cafe and some had brownies with cream, all very nice too.

Worrying times for OH at the moment , with the Brexit uncertainty the company he works for is suffering, they are mainly suppliers for products for the motor industry, particularly Jaguar Land Rover who are also selling less cars, OH and colleagues have had to take a pay cut and no bonuses or overtime, this has a big impact on our finances😬, hoping it will pick up soon.

Hope you all had a good weekend and enjoyed the lovely weather.

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Good Morning ladies!
Lovewine what stunning pictures of you and the dogs on the beach and the Japanese Garden. Next time We go to Cornwall I will certainly pay it a visit! It was all very well having conferences in this lovely part of the worl but we never had time to explore!
It’s going to be a stressful 2 weeks for you waiting for your result and your dad’s! I suppose if you are busy at work the time will pass more quickly.🙄
The name of the cafe you went to sounds mouth watering by its name!😂 Hope you enjoyed a well deserved delicious cake.
We had to take the dog to the vet yesterday for her booster shot and kennel cough! As always she made a huge fuss and certainly wasn’t going to participate in having the kennel cough sprayed up her nose! The vet had to tie her up with a bandage mussel! 😳 She was not impressed at all and couldn’t get in the car quick enough! She wouldn’t even eat the treat the nurse offered her!😮
Well tomorrow we fly back to the UK in preparation for our cruise starting next Sunday! It had been a very hectic stressful 2 weeks especially for DH. We have a hand over meeting at 9.00am this morning with one of the new directors!
The weather is starting to break here now. We had a dust cloud for 2 days and it was very humid. There was thunder rolling about and a rain cloud which did drop some big spots for about 1 minute!😂 it felt cooler last night. We went out with our friends to a taverna and than went on to an outdoor very nice new bar where we had coffee. We were sat out until 11.30pm in short sleeves although my arms felt cool! I had 3/4 trousers on for the first time for months here!
Joan hope you are feeling stronger now , have you had a theatre trip this weekend?
Cassie hope work hasn’t been too manic, I expect there is a mad rush now for flu vaccines? Hope the family are all well.
Wildpurl I expect that you have some new projects on the go for the winter?
Have a good rest of the weekend ladies!

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The last are the beautiful japanese garden which was in the prettiest village called St Mawgan .

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Good morning ladies, mammogram done, i was in and out wtthin 10 mins and then went straight off to work, i do feel particularly stressed about the results this time, think its all whats going on with Dad😳, he had his CT scan last night and we go for the results in 2 weeks.
Today we are meeting up with our dog walking friends and driving to a nice area with a circular walk with a very nice cafe halfway called mint and ginger, they do fabulous cakes!
Joan, i totally agree with Rosie, you certainly are not wasting NHS resources and look at all the good worthwhile causes you have been and still are involved in ! So glad you are feeling a lot better.
Have a good weekend everyone !
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Good Morning ladies!
Lovewine I hope all went ok yesterday as you say the next hurdle is waiting for the results!😳
My dad had an aneurism and lived with it for many years. That wasn’t the cause of death either! It would be a possible explaination for your dad’s recent health problem. At least he is well and truely in the radar and is being looked after! It must be a constant worry for you as a family though!😞
Hopefully you have got something nice planned for the weekend?
Joan I am so releaved that you are feeling so much better. As OH insists I think you should go through with the blood test etc you are not wasting NH you have paid NI all your working life and we have all been hit down once by a killer disease you must take what is offered! Rant over!😉
Seriously we were all concerned about you!
I enjoyed my meet up with my friend for coffee we went to a new ice cream/ cafe bar just down the road from school on the coast. We had a frappe and then an ice cream, I had a caramel flavour and my friend had mango!🤪
Today I am having my nails done the first time for several weeks as I had a thin nail bed isssue!
DH is off to Nicosia today so will be gone till quite late!
I expect you are all ready for the weekend!

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Thank you for all your best wishes ladies. I am feeling a lot better now, although still getting quite tired the stomach ache has gone, apart from an occasional twinge, and the cough is now just my usual dry one. I cant feel the hard area anymore so am fairly convinced that it was all a symptom of the bug. However I think I will have to go through with the blood tests and investigation just to be on the safe side and because OH is quite insistent, I think he is more worried than I am. But I do worry about wasting NHS resources. 

 

Lovewine, sorry I got the date of your mammogram wrong. Hope all went well today and your results dont take too long to come through. Shame your dad has to go through further tests but its good they’re checking out a possible aneurism because then they can do something about it. My dads wasn’t diagnosed until he collapsed  which meant the subsequent surgery, from which he still made a good recovery, had to be carried out as an emergency. Will the workload have eased off by tomorrow? 

 

Cassie, glad the weather didnt spoil your weekend. Well done on the walking, much needed I would guess after the Sally Lunns, which I remember as being delicious but huge. Hope the work hasnt piled up while you’ve been away. Fortunate that the problems at Paddington didnt happen earlier. 

 

Rosie, hope you enjoyed coffee with your friend. Hope you have no further trouble with ants.

 

I think I must be the only person not to have seen the post that was taken down. intriguing. 

 

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Evening ladies, Rosie, you are quite right i am bricking it for my mammogram tomorrow , am dreading waiting for the results. Also my sister told me Dad has had an appointment through for a ct scan on Friday evening to check on a possible aneurism in the aorta, which hasnt filled us with much comfort.

I also saw the post on sunday which was removed, i thought it was maybe because it was selling the miracle cure maybe.

Joan , i hope you are ok and have managed to distract yourself from the hospital appointment with your work.

 Cassie , glad you had a good trip to Bath and enjoyed the time with your nephew too.