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Hi Helena

Getting new windows that's exciting, I love getting work done on the house.

Good Luck with your bowling competitions , there's no such thing as a relaxing week these days but as you say we have been fortunate enough to have lovely sunshine.

Thank you for your support

B xxx
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Hi Chrissy

What a beautiful day it has been . Thank you once again for your thoughts and support.

Unfortunately the pain did come back but I'm still not convinced there's anything wrong. I think it's probably hormonal and long term HRT use doesn't seem to make me anymore at risk than someone who is not on it , unless family members have previously been diagnosed ( no one in my family has) so it's all looking very positive.

If you are stil experiencing discomfort then perhaps you should go back to the doctors?

I hope you have had time to enjoy the sunshine today

Belle xx
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Hi Belle

 

Glad to read you are feeling better today.

 

Also great you have not had any pain for two days! That must be encouraging. But as the lovely ladies say on here, you must go to your appointment. If nothing more than to stop you worrying. I am still having discomfort and so wish my GP had referred me now.

 

Great pick last night. Hope you have a lovely few days holiday and the weather stays fine for you. Oh, and so glad you have told your hushand. A problem shared is a problem halved. It must have been good to talk about it.

 

Take care and speak soon

Love Chrissy xx

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Belle

 

Yay that is good to hear, being kind to yourself will help with your anxiety and frustrations.

 

I am full on at the moment with new double glazing being fitted and bowling in comps, so much for a relxing week off!! Smiley Happy Mind you the bonus is that the weather is lovely so I am able to spend some time gardening each day

 

H xx

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Hi Helena

I'm feeling good today , I've taken a couple of days off work . Just relaxing and unwinding.

I'm going for my appointment , I realise now I was just getting frustrated with waiting.

I'm really grateful for the support from everyone on the form, thank you so much .

I will let you all know how I get on xx

Belle x
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Belle

 

Hiya, how are you feeling today  xxx

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It is wonderful, good night Helena and thank you xx
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Belle

 

Hey no problem.  That is the wonderful thing about this forum, you are in a safe environment where we all understand just what you are going through and you can just rant, rave, cry, ask questions, there will always be someone on here

 

Hopefully you will have a good nights sleep

 

xxxx

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Thank you Helena, you are right it is the pits. I feel much better just actually saying it out loud . I was beginning to think I was imagining everything, I feel much more upbeat. Thank you all so much for taking time out of your day to reply.

You are all so very kind xx

Belle
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Belle

 

I obviously posted to your earlier post before I saw your more recent one.  I am so pleased that you are going to the apt and that you are telling your husband, it will I am sure ease the stress that you are feeling at the moment.

 

We are always here for you

 

Helena xxx

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Belle

 

This waiting is the pits and we can all really relate to your frustrations.  Just come on here whenever you are feeling miserable we will always help you through it xxx

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Hi Ann

Thank you , I decided to tell my husband and I'm going to the appointment. I'm sure it will be clear but as you all say it's better to just get it over with.

Thank you to you all xx

Belle
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Hi Belle,
As Helena says.
The uncertainty & not knowing is what's so hard to handle, but those thoughts will still play on your mind if you dont go & could end up prolonging the whole thing, when the chances are, you'll get the all clear & it's resolved.
Take care
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Hi Ladybowler

I'm just so fed up with all the waiting around. My husband and children are fed up with my moods , one minute happy then the next I'm miserable.

I won't cancel it and decide nearer trhe time , I just know I can't go another 2 weeks of this roller coaster of feelings.

Thank you for your support xxx
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Belle

 

I know it is your decison ultimately, but please still attend the appointment, if for nothing else than they confirm that everything is ok just in case it is a benign breast condition that might need looking at xxx

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Hi Chrissy

Thank you for your messages it's so lovely that you make the effort to keep in touch.

I can't believe I still have another 2 weeks before the appointment, getting fed up with it all.

Not been in any pain the past 2 days so thinking of Just cancelling the appointment. I can't feel any lump at all ( even though the doctor said he could) .

I think I've been stressing over nothing and it seems pointless to continue to worry for the next two weeks for nothing.

I hope the music practice is going well, you must visit Scotland its amazingly beautiful ( rubbish weather but stunning .

Onwards and upwards, stay positive xx

Belle xx
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Hi Belle

 

Thanks for replying. I am so glad you are feeling more positive now (certainly helps with life doesn't it) but sorry you still have wobbles....I so did, and still do but onwards and upwards eh. Together we stand....

 

Even though you do not go until the end of the month, keep writing if you feel like it as each day brings it's own difficulties and I do think of you daily, keeping my fingers well and truly crossed.

 

Lol, I did smile when you said where you live.....the middle of Glasgow....I live in the middle of the midlands...not much chance of us getting a booking up there. More's the pity. Never been to Scotland and it is on my 'to do' list!!! But then, never say never eh....

 

Just watching the tennis. Can't believe Wimbledon fortnight is over.

 

Right, off to do a bit of practice for tomorrow.

 

Take care

Love Bassplayer (Chrissy) xx

 

 

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Feeling a bit concerned not wondering
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Hi Bassplayer


It is so lovely to hear from you. In feeling fine, emotionally good days and up and down days . It's just the waiting that's frustrating and a drag at times.

My symptoms didn't clear after the antibiotics but the pain isn't unbearable although I find I'm constantly having a prod around and it then becomes more painful. So trying to leave it alone.

Still feeling upbeat as I don't believe it's anything sinister. Although I had a wee wobbly day last week and told my sister I was wondering a wee bit concerned but haven't mentioned it to anyone else as I don't want to make a drama out of it.

I live near Livingston, smack bang in the middle of Glasgow and Edinburgh. Where do you play your gigs ?

That's great you are still enthusiastic about your music and playing. I'm pretty useless musically but really admire musicians and the dedication!!

I'm glad you are doing well, sounds as though you are being very positive, I hope the pain has eased for you.

Thank you so much for taking the time to write to me xxx Smiley Happy


Keep in touch

Love Belle xx
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Hi Belle

 

Just wondered how you were getting on and coping? I know you don't go until the end of the month, and that can seem such a long time.

 

I'm not out of the woods yet as if it doesn't settle down, I will have to go back but staying positive and fingers crossed. Has yours settled by now after your antibiotics? I do hope so!! Let me know how you are...

 

Playing on Monday so busying myself on the strings lol. You say you might see us play one day? Well you might....what part of the country are you?

 

Take care and I hope you are still feeling positive

 

Love Bassplayer xxx